Navigating from the time when you’re born
and raised, through the boat you’ve voyage so long in the vast ocean
has so big to tell but most of us keep moving most of the time without even giving a single stop to think on the daily life activities. Once one cold freezing
night, like of those usual sleepless night when my eyelids took full control of
my eyes, when body metabolically active, when whole of thoughts thundered and
rumble in my head, unlike other night going through whole expanse of imaginations
through the greatest distance mind travel it offered me a good time with a chance to
think about the life we live from the time when we born and raised.
The followings are few thoughts among many which i wrote here according to my experiences and the perspective on life which many of us live;
Love, life and people
Many among millions must have gone through
or even if they hadn’t they must have witnessed at least. You know, in our life as we grow up, as life
take us to different places we meet so many people either of our kind or
different. What is the funniest and strangest thing that I have noticed,
experienced and seen is, how people that we use to know, those people who have
been so much to you, so close to you turning into strangers sometimes so easily
in short span of time. An example, love
is in air everywhere and one way or other, everybody of us even if we are of
strongest kind is in need of love, care and affection with the whole burning of
desire inside us which make us to search for love intentionally or
unintentionally. When we fall for love,
when we find soft corner for the person, in the beginning it started with all
those ties of dreams, hopes, wishes, and promises like we could even give up
whole of ourselves to the people that we love, but as day turn into week, week
into months and years, naturally problems, barriers, challenges comes on our
way which sometime completely ruin the relation due to so much of expectation
or due to different qualities that one can’t accept for each other, and it
happens in most cases which started with hurts, betrayal, sadness and all. All
of this is perfectly fine, because we can’t deny the truth of life being series
of battles that testify us each coming days, but what is unbelievable and
strange is, how those people who has known from tip of hair to tip of nails,
who has share hundreds days of happiness and joys turning easily into complete
foes in short time after all problems in life.
It look so strange and funny to me because
obstacles and problems has nothing to do and ruin the entire thing if everyone
of us don’t give a way ,after all the problems and life is normal.
So have you ever thought of why all this
things turns out so bad? I think it turns so bad unbelievably, because of human
and self associated problems of ego and the demon that everyone has inside.
Such is a strange life sometimes going on in this beautiful world.
Life and game.
There are millions of things we encounter in our
daily life and among all; troubles, struggles and battles is one that arises
anywhere at any time in all the time that comes, irrespective of any status and
situation. So the question is how you have been dealing with this entire
situation, when sometimes lives don’t treat fairly or either when life finds us
through wrong times. Adrenaline rush, head breaking thoughts, heavy
worries and all sort of negatives vibes right! I know, most of us are subjected
or either made like this to react when suddenly troubles find us through our
day to day life. Here is the undeniable
truth; unnecessarily reacting and letting ourselves go through worries, tension
and heavy thoughts even through the normal life struggles. Unnecessarily holding things and pressurizing
within one making inner peace flee through those things which we have to let
go. Waiting so much for the entire good
thing to happen when we know we have to put our energy to achieve. Such as this, there are so many in lists
which one way or other way we struggle ourselves; making ourselves our own
troubles. So there is no way we can expect to solve problems, to expect for
good when we ourselves make more complicated.
In life, there
is so much and more to endure, there is lot of times that we should be ready
ourselves and focused to battle any kind of situation without worrying too
much, and yeah learning to let things go off which are mean to, because have
you ever notice yourself, you know where we faced this thousand kind of situations
but still we are the same individual with same thoughts but expecting good
things to happen. So basically we should learn to adapt, we should learn to
battle in the best way with all the positive thoughts, because all this series
of battles through the meandering course just is temporary as our life which
just came to test us and it’s normal.
Wishes and
realizations
When do we
realize most of the time? According to
me, many of us realize when worst started appearing and when our situations
become stagnant and worsen. What do we do basically after all this realizations
is start wishing foolishly when we know nothing can change? An anecdote from my
life at college, a similar story everyone would have in some point of
life. Most of the time, my college days
begin waking up early morning, then attending usual lectures, and finally
coming back to room and either playing football or watching movies or busy with
some social sites. This same schedules
follow almost throughout the whole semester and at the end when exam arrive on
the door, i would land up struggling burning midnight oil, which would be much
easier if i have given a quality of time from the beginning and as a result i
would land up getting exhausted unnecessarily, would land up giving tough time
to myself, and wishing if i have a little more time to study good and well.
In life, in many
cases to many of us we do almost all the same thing everywhere at anytime even if
we are alarmed of the future, even if we have dreams by living the life of
mediocrity and finally landing up realizing when the worst start
appearing. There is so many thing in
life where we land up realizing lately; realization of short of time when it’s
all finish, realization of love and care when it’s far gone, realization of
missing happy home when you go through struggles and thousand more that make us
realize each coming day making us wish more and landing up getting devastated
at the end when nothing get change which we could have done before if we are
little serious of life.
So basically I
think giving ourselves a time to do what we are suppose to do would make life
so much easier without having to realize when everything is at stagnant, but
it’s a life most of us live in number of days in our life in this modern society which ultimately lead us
to worst time.
